How do I apologize to my Boyfriend?

Posted by admin on 07/19/2010

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Q&A: How do I apologize to my Boyfriend?
Long story short:

I’m a beginner model, and just had my 1st runway show. It was a big deal. MTV was filming it, it was a huge party, etc.

A month ago I told my boyfriend I’d be sure to take him with me, then a couple weeks later I told him I didn’t think he could go because I’d be working the whole time (I wouldnt have time to hang out with him).

I didnt even invite any friends to go. So I go to this huge party and I’m getting my hair done and another model asks if she can bring some friends and the person running the whole thing says yes.

Honestly, I forgot I even told my BF that he could go. I just thought of my sister coming, because we always have so much fun together and I know she’d really want to go. So I told her to bring a friend and she did.

They show up and us girls have a great time.

Another long story short: sister gets sick, leaves. Me and Michelle (the friend) meet some people and party with them on the beach until 2am. Some of those people were guys.

So my BF calls me this morning and asked me how it was. I tell him that michelle and my sister came and about meeting all these new people (yes, i told him there were guys there) on the beach and having a great ol’ time.

He gets PISSED. He said that I genuinely hurt him by not inviting him since I promised I would a month ago. I think HE thinks that I didnt invite him so I can meet guys or something, which is SO not true. I’m in love with my boyfriend, I love him and want no one else. I was with Michelle at all times and actually NONE of the guys hit on us at all and they knew I had a boyfriend of THREE years.

While we were talking on the phone, my boyfriend said “I’m going to get off the phone.” So I said “I’m really sorry.” and hung up.

Then he texts me saying “do you even give a crap about how this makes me feel? you didn’t even sound sincere when you apologized, you hung up on me. you honestly really hurt me today, sounds gay but its true, i dont want to talk to you right now.”

IDK what to do to make this better?! I honestly just forgot about what I said a MONTH ago. I was caught up in the excitement and invited my sister because I know I can have fun with her!

Maybe I shouldnt have told my BF about hanging out with those people, but I had nothing to hide, thats why I did it.

I feel SO horrible! I dont know what to do! Can you guys give me some perspective on this? How would you handle this? I want him to know I really am sorry, I honestly just forgot.

Thanks.

The answer in the following:

Answer by Kelsie
go to his house and apoligize in person and explain how bad u feel for hurting him

Answer by Sean
Sounds like he is not your priority, and there is nothing wrong with that. You need to do what makes you happy. Maybe on some level you wanted to forget. If he was not the first person you thought of when it came to invite someone, well that’s a pretty good indicator.
If you want to make it up to him and want him to understand that you are sorry and feel bad, you’re going to hae to make a nice gesture for him. Cook for him, take him to his favorite place something that is all about him. A nice bl**job comes to mind. So decide what is important in your life and live it the way you want to.

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